I have spent the last couple of months doing a lot of downtime around my job. This has resulted in a fairly boring life for you, but some pretty cool things coming up for me.
I bought a home. Actually I bought two homes for $80,000 total. On top of that, one has renters so its like a small income stream. They are both slightly older homes, in fairly good shape and have been lived in. I don’t move in for a couple of months so the older folks in the house I am going to live can pack and move. I don’t want to jinx it, so no pictures yet.
The second home has a nice family in it. They seem to need a place to stay, they have been good on paying rent and honestly I don’t mind helping them out. The homes will be paid out in full. I used most of my discharge money, plus some money saved from dancing. At least now I will only have taxes, no payments for it and I will get a little extra in rental income (depending on maintenance needs).
There were a couple of other options that were $5,000 and $10,000 for single homes that were smaller and abandoned. I am fairly sure the problems of those places would make them more expensive. However, I think if I save up more money I might pick them up as I go. You never know when owning extra things can come in handy.
The other big change is Hunter and I. We are dating more heavily now, it is a semi-official thing (I haven’t gotten confirmation, but I now can go over and sit with him, and initiate sex and he responds). This doesn’t change my other situations of course, we aren’t exclusive and he definitely isn’t monogamy driven.
We talked a lot about him (there isn’t a lot to talk about me, I don’t remember much to tell him). His previous relationships, the fact he does get jealous if he sees things (and protective). He is aggressive, very masculine in how he handles things, but I am attracted to that (he fits into that bad boy image, but a bit older).
We got together the night he took me out to star watch. Yes, it is as corny as it sounds and I had a great time. Just laying out there with him listening to his astronomy knowledge was fun and I would have called that a raging success, but he was also forward and we baptized our relationship in the bed of his pickup.
He is fun, if a bit rough. He was incredibly worried I would be scared off and I think at first he didn’t believe that it just turned me on. We had a lot of fun, learned a lot about each other physically and I got to learn about him mentally/historically. Maybe someday I will remember enough to share back.
Tldr; I bought a house, had sex with Hunter and am officially dating him.